The Truman Show: How It Feels to Discover Your Spouse Is Cheating

Remember “The Truman Show” (1998 movie with Jim Carrey)? It was about a boy, Truman Burbank, who was raised on the set of a T.V. show. He lived in a 1950s utopia, but none of it was real. Everyone he interacted with – the people he thought were his parents, wife, children, friends, co-workers, and … Continue reading The Truman Show: How It Feels to Discover Your Spouse Is Cheating

Three Ways Being Married to Jesus is Different from Being Married to Any Other Man … And One Way it’s the Same.

Jesus is my only husband now. This is not some pretty cliché. It's real. He's stood by me through all this mess and He's right here with me now. And now that it's just him and me, I want to pursue my relationship with him more than ever before. Here are some things Jesus has … Continue reading Three Ways Being Married to Jesus is Different from Being Married to Any Other Man … And One Way it’s the Same.

Band-Aid on My Heart: Why It’s so Hard to See My Ex, Even Though We Don’t Fight.

I’ve been separated from the man I married for a little over a year now. I still see him regularly. Sometimes just briefly to hand off the kids or discuss some logistics. Other times it’s longer - a school event or birthday party. Every time I see him, it’s like ripping a band-aid off my … Continue reading Band-Aid on My Heart: Why It’s so Hard to See My Ex, Even Though We Don’t Fight.

Counseling Lie Exposed: Paul was NOT a Sex Addict.

“You know, everyone carries around secrets like this,” the Christian Counselor enlightened me … “And, you know, pretty much all men do this.” “Jesus didn’t.” She actually brightened, “Oh, but Paul [The Apostle] did!” “What??!!” “Yes, don’t you know, Paul was probably a sex addict.” “What??!!” “Yes, he said he had a thorn in his … Continue reading Counseling Lie Exposed: Paul was NOT a Sex Addict.

God, What Should I Do?: A Christian Approach to Decision Making (Part 1 of series)

In this series, I want to share some truths I’ve learned from scripture about how to make decisions as a follower of Christ. God showed me most of these truths a couple years before I moved to India when I was going through a difficult time. At the time, I was struggling with indecision and uncertainty … Continue reading God, What Should I Do?: A Christian Approach to Decision Making (Part 1 of series)